Sick of it all

I am sick to DEATH of people telling me that they know what it is like to have someone deployed because their brother/brother-in-law or cousin or friend or whatever is in the military!!!! YOU HAVE NO IDEA!!!!!! It is completely diffrent when it is your HUSBAND or son. It is like 1/2 of you has been ripped out of you. Your not whole with out them there beside you in your arms. SO please don't tell me you know how it feels unless you've been through it or are going through it. Because unless you have/are you have NO IDEA and no right to try and tell me that.